www.psychspace.com心理学空间网用一下评分标准给每个声明打分
1=完全不符合我
2=大部分不符合我
3=有一点符合我
4=基本符合我
5=大部分符合我
6=完全符合对我的描述
一、Abandonment and Instability(ai)遗弃/不稳定
1.I am fearful that people I love will die or leave me.
我害怕我爱的人会死去或离开我。
2.I get clingy with people when I feel that they are going to leave me.
当我感到某人将离开我时我会紧紧黏住他/她。"
3.My support system feels unstable.
我的支持系统感觉不稳固。
4.I find myself falling in love with people who aren't capable of or willing to commit to me.
我发现自己会爱上不能或不愿意对我承诺的人
5.People have always moved in and out of my life.
人们一直在我的生活中进进出出。
6.When someone I love pulls away,I feel desperate.
当某个我爱的人离开时,我会感到绝望。
7.My obsession with the idea that my lovers will leave me drives them away.
我的“我爱的人会离开我”的强迫观念把他们赶走了。
8.The people I have the closest relationships with are unpredictable.Sometime they are there for me,and sometimes they are not.
与我有最紧密关系的人是不可预测的。有时候他们会在我身边,有时候不会。
9.I feel like I need people more than others do.
我觉得我比别人更需要他人。
10.I feel like I will be alone toward the end of my life.
我觉得我将独自一人走向生命的终点。
二、Mistrust Abuse(ma)不信任/虐待
1.I have the expectation that people will hurt me or use me.
我觉得人们会伤害我或利用我。
2.People close to me have consistently abused me.
我身边的人一直虐待我。
3.I know that it is only a matter of time before the people who are important in my life will betray me.
我知道我生命中重要的人早晚会离开我.
4.I must protect myself and be on guard.
我必须保护自己、保持警惕。
5.People will take advantage of me if I am not careful.
人们会利用我,如果我不小心的话。
6.I regularly set up tests for people to determine whether they are really on my side.
我经常测试人们来判断他们是否真的站在我这边。
7.I tend to hurt others before they can hurt me.
我倾向于在别人伤害我之前先伤害他们。
8.I fear that people will hurt me if I allow them to get close to me.
我害怕人们会伤害我,如果我允许他们靠近我的话。
9.When I think about what people have done to me,I get angry.
当我想到人们对我所做的,我会变得生气。
10.The people who I should have been able to trust have physically,verbally,or sexually abused me.
我应该已经能够信任的人曾经身体、言语、性虐待过我。
三、Emotional Deprivation(ed)情感剥夺
1.I don't get as much love as I need.
我得到的爱没有我需要的多。
2.I feel like no one really understands me.
我觉得事实上没有人理解我。
3.I am usually attracted to cold partners who can't meet my needs.
我通常被冷漠的不能满足我的需要的伴侣所吸引。
4.I don't feel connected,even to the people who are closest to me.
我没有感到与那些甚至是最接近我的人有连接。
5.I have not had one special person in my life who wants to share himself or herself with me and care about what happens to me.
1=完全不符合我
2=大部分不符合我
3=有一点符合我
4=基本符合我
5=大部分符合我
6=完全符合对我的描述
一、Abandonment and Instability(ai)遗弃/不稳定
1.I am fearful that people I love will die or leave me.
我害怕我爱的人会死去或离开我。
2.I get clingy with people when I feel that they are going to leave me.
当我感到某人将离开我时我会紧紧黏住他/她。"
3.My support system feels unstable.
我的支持系统感觉不稳固。
4.I find myself falling in love with people who aren't capable of or willing to commit to me.
我发现自己会爱上不能或不愿意对我承诺的人
5.People have always moved in and out of my life.
人们一直在我的生活中进进出出。
6.When someone I love pulls away,I feel desperate.
当某个我爱的人离开时,我会感到绝望。
7.My obsession with the idea that my lovers will leave me drives them away.
我的“我爱的人会离开我”的强迫观念把他们赶走了。
8.The people I have the closest relationships with are unpredictable.Sometime they are there for me,and sometimes they are not.
与我有最紧密关系的人是不可预测的。有时候他们会在我身边,有时候不会。
9.I feel like I need people more than others do.
我觉得我比别人更需要他人。
10.I feel like I will be alone toward the end of my life.
我觉得我将独自一人走向生命的终点。
二、Mistrust Abuse(ma)不信任/虐待
1.I have the expectation that people will hurt me or use me.
我觉得人们会伤害我或利用我。
2.People close to me have consistently abused me.
我身边的人一直虐待我。
3.I know that it is only a matter of time before the people who are important in my life will betray me.
我知道我生命中重要的人早晚会离开我.
4.I must protect myself and be on guard.
我必须保护自己、保持警惕。
5.People will take advantage of me if I am not careful.
人们会利用我,如果我不小心的话。
6.I regularly set up tests for people to determine whether they are really on my side.
我经常测试人们来判断他们是否真的站在我这边。
7.I tend to hurt others before they can hurt me.
我倾向于在别人伤害我之前先伤害他们。
8.I fear that people will hurt me if I allow them to get close to me.
我害怕人们会伤害我,如果我允许他们靠近我的话。
9.When I think about what people have done to me,I get angry.
当我想到人们对我所做的,我会变得生气。
10.The people who I should have been able to trust have physically,verbally,or sexually abused me.
我应该已经能够信任的人曾经身体、言语、性虐待过我。
三、Emotional Deprivation(ed)情感剥夺
1.I don't get as much love as I need.
我得到的爱没有我需要的多。
2.I feel like no one really understands me.
我觉得事实上没有人理解我。
3.I am usually attracted to cold partners who can't meet my needs.
我通常被冷漠的不能满足我的需要的伴侣所吸引。
4.I don't feel connected,even to the people who are closest to me.
我没有感到与那些甚至是最接近我的人有连接。
5.I have not had one special person in my life who wants to share himself or herself with me and care about what happens to me.