作　者：Wendy Behary
出　版：New Harbinger Publications
书　号：1608827607
原　价：￥116.60元

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lWf7_&XA0DISARMING THE NARCISSIST: SURVIVING AND THRIVING WITH THE SELF-ABSORBED心理学空间
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What can you do with the narcissistic people in your life? They’re frustrating (and maybe even intimidating) to deal with. But sometimes you genuinely care for one of them. And you might need to interact with others in social or professional settings. Sometimes it doesn’t won’t work to simply ignore them. You need to find a way of communicating effectively with narcissists, getting your point across and meeting your needs while sidestepping unproductive power struggles and senseless arguments.This book offers several strategies for dealing effectively with someone who is at the centre of his or her own universe. Readers will learn how to move past the narcissist’s defences with compassionate, empathetic communication. They’ll learn to understand the worldview and coping styles of narcissists and why it’s often sad and lonely to be a narcissist. By anticipating and avoiding certain hot-button issues, readers will discover ways to relate to narcissists without triggering aggression. By validating some common narcissistic concerns, readers will find out how to be heard in conversation with a narcissist.
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Praise for the first edition　　对初版的赞美

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x q I_&z9H4qeY9{0Foreword　　序言心理学空间9Di*M FE3dJac+|-V

Preface　　前言心理学空间4bn3f^'e-su

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d4n&h5F(k9g0　　An Era of Narcissism 　　自恋的时代

0?L6f8rM8Of!B3D0　　The Wisdom of Empathy 　　共情的智慧心理学空间Mm:iqi:j!N

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{!KnA"T0　　Pivotal Influences　　关键的影响

vG;F"hi$K7f8T(a0　　Shared Wisdom　　共享智慧心理学空间6N7QD2@0Ep&^

#s7a7Vk O%I sl01 Framing the Situation: Toward an Understanding of Narcissism 建构情境：对自恋的理解

　　The Narcissist at a Glance 一目了然的自恋者

　　What Is a Narcissist? 什么是自恋？

　　Origins of Narcissism 自恋的起源

o(h:H,zs?0　　The Magician: Disappearing When It’s Time to Focus on You魔术师：当你集中注意力的时候就消失了。心理学空间8S1N0_ rn(f:^C}

　　Hiding Behind the Armor of Coping Modes躲在应对方式的盔甲后面

　　The Narcissist’s Strategy for Dealing with Unmet Needs处理未满足需求的自恋者的策略心理学空间-o(UB,]qymZ5{J6n

5E8B U$}P)T)lG5r0　　Covert Narcissism隐性自恋

　　The Difference between Male and Female Narcissists 男性和女性的自恋者的区别

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`9]#K [f7}Od#Z-b\0　　Conclusion结论

2 Understanding the Anatomy of Personality: Schemas and the Brain理解人格的剖析：图式和大脑心理学空间2HLr T8J,M

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　　Schema Therapy图式疗法

-kR.aP4@\2P0　　Foundations of Security: Biology and Attachment安全基础：生物学与依恋

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　　Conclusion结论

m!umw pbD w |_03 Getting Captured: Identifying Your Personal Traps被捕获：识别你的个人陷阱

　　Comfort Zones: The Challenges of Living with and Changing Your Habits舒适区：生活与改变习惯的挑战

nl5yL#]1c2F(i1C0　　Why the Narcissist Triggers You为什么自恋者触发了你心理学空间-Wtf7y0q i

_jBh/Z2@2A:A.{0　　Developing an Authentic Voice发展真实的声音心理学空间6i5g V@)v5j\`u)x-L

　　A Game of Collusion共谋游戏

　　Hope Springs Eternal: The Capacity to Learn and Change希望永恒：学习和改变的能力心理学空间(h1[-A?&Z8YO7Q ~g

　　Conclusion结论

4 Overcoming the Obstacles: Communication Pitfalls, Snags, and Glitches克服障碍：沟通的陷阱，障碍，和故障

2M s7EsqArC C@0　　Four Stages of Transformation转型的四个阶段

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　　Making Sense of Our Senses: Messages from the Brain and Body感知我们的感官：来自大脑和身体的信息心理学空间w'A ORM_3L

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P!l!x6fjh/f5r0　　Beyond Fight, Flight, or Freeze超越战斗、逃跑或僵动

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,JM5}n/{y05 Paying Attention: Facing Difficult Encounters with a Narcissist注意：面对与自恋狂的不同遭遇心理学空间/T"O!N(y-w2O3DP

　　Breaking Free from Your Mechanical Habits摆脱你的机械习惯

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[4ch9E`%r0　　The Importance of Practice实践的重要性

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　　Identifying Perilous Narcissism识别危险的自恋

　　Excuses, Excuses借口，借口

　　Drawing the Line画线心理学空间I:JL ~(W5~L |[ xj*g

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7 Using Empathic Confrontation: A Winning Strategy for Interpersonal Effectiveness使用共情对峙：人际效能的制胜策略心理学空间c@ XO3E

　　Distinguishing between Empathy and Compassion区分共情和悲悯心理学空间$u']{(Z'{5~$D

　　Feeling “Felt”感受“感觉”心理学空间?e}Ft/j+x

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　　Mirroring the Other镜映他者

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　　Creating Leverage for Change为改变创造杠杆心理学空间
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