Relationship Inventory: Forms MO and OS
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RELATIONSHIP INVENTORY (Adapted from B-L R I)
Client Ref: Date:
Gender: M / F
Therapist ID
Session No.
Below are listed a variety of ways that one person may feel or behave in relation to another person. Please consider each statement with reference to your counselling/therapy relationship. Circle a score for each question according to how strongly you feel it is true or not true in this relationship.
Please give a mark for every statement. Circle either, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 or 6 to stand for the following answers:
1 = No, I strongly feel that it is not true
2 = No I feel it is not true
3 = No, I feel that it is probably untrue, or more untrue than true
4 =Yes, I feel it is probably true, or more true than untrue
5 =Yes I feel it is true
6 =Yes I strongly feel that it is true
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1 I respect them as a person.我尊敬其人
2 I want to understand how they see things.我想要理解他们如何看待事情
3 My interest in them depends on what they say or do.我对他们的兴趣来自他们所说所为
关系中我觉得舒服和放松
4 I am comfortable and at ease in our relationship.在我们的5 I understand their words but I do not understand the way they feel.我理解他们话语中的意思但是我法了解他们的感觉
6 Whether they feel happy or unhappy with themselves makes no real difference to the way I feel about them.无论他们自己觉的开心或悲伤,我对待他们的方式横竖一样
7 I feel that I put on a role or a front with them.我觉得我在做戏/打肿脸充胖子
8 I am impatient with them.我对他们很有耐心
9 I feel appreciation toward them.我对他们心存感激
10 I usually sense or realise what they are feeling.
11 I want them to be a particular kind of person.
12 I nearly always feel that what I say expresses exactly what I am feeling and thinking as I say it.
13 I find them rather dull and uninteresting.
14 My own attitudes towards some of the things they do or say prevents me from understanding them.
15 They can (or could) be openly critical or appreciative of me without really making me feel any differently about them.