Being lonely can cause you so much stress your body goes into fight-or-flight mode. 0
孤独会给你造成很大的压力,你的身体进入战斗或逃跑模式。
There are more ways than ever to connect with others — yet many of us know the hollow ache of loneliness.
有很多的方式和他人联系-但我们许多人都知道孤独痛苦的疼痛。
Loneliness isn’t constrained by age, gender, marital status or job title. CEOs feel it. So do cubicle dwellers. As do new moms, granddads, recent college grads and elementary school students.
孤独不受年龄、性别、婚姻状况或职称限制。CEO、斗室中的居民、做了妈妈,祖父,新近毕业的大学生和小学生也都会有孤独感。
Even royalty isn’t immune. Duchess Kate of Cambridge said in April that she has felt lonely and isolated as a mother.
甚至皇室也不能幸免。剑桥公爵夫人凯特在四月说,她作为一个母亲感到孤独和孤立。
And yes, some of those Facebook friends who continually post photos of bar outings and extended family gatherings may be quite lonely, too.
是的,一些在Facebook经常张贴酒吧远足和大家庭聚会的照片的朋友也可能很孤独。
The prevalence of loneliness "is surprisingly high," says John Cacioppo, director of the Center for Cognitive and Social Neuroscience at the University of Chicago, who has studied the topic extensively.
认知与社会神经科学中心主任John Cacioppo说:“孤独的盛行高得惊人。”。
芝加哥大学的Loneliness can have negative effects on one's mental and physical health. (May is Mental Health Month.) As a society, we've put increased emphasis on emotional well-being, yet loneliness remains a major issue. Last week, the U.S. Senate Special Committee on Aging held a hearing on the effect of isolation and loneliness. Sen. Susan Collins, R-Maine, said, "The consequences of isolation and loneliness are severe — negative health outcomes, higher health care costs and even death."
情感的福祉,但孤独仍然是一个重大问题。上周,美国参议院老龄问题特别委员会举行了孤立和孤独的影响听证会。参议员Susan Collins,r-maine说,“孤独和寂寞的后果是严重的负面的健康结果、更高的医疗成本、甚至死亡。”
孤独会对人的身心健康产生负面影响。(5月是心理健康月)作为一个社会,我们已经把重点放在In 2015, U.S. Surgeon General Vivek Murthy, one of President Obama's appointees who was recently asked to step down, pointed out the health dangers that can come from "isolation, lack of meaning and a loss of self-worth."
被奥巴马总统任命,最近被要求下台的美国外科医生Vivek Murthy,在2015年指出,健康的危险可能来自“隔离,缺乏意义和丧失自我价值。”
What is loneliness, exactly? Most of us have felt it in some form or another. It's the feeling that arises when there is a gap between social interactions you want and reality. It's feeling separated, even alienated, and can last for a short stretch or a prolonged period of time. It's important to note that you can feel lonely "even when you are around other people,” Cacioppo says.
孤独到底什么是?我们大多数人都以某种形式或另一种形式感觉到了这一点。当你想要的社会交往和现实之间存在差距时,这种感觉就出现了。这种感觉是分离的,甚至是疏远的,持续时间很短或更长的时间。“重要的是要注意,即使你在别人身边,你也可以感到孤独,”Cacioppo说。
Loneliness is an issue that spans all age groups in one way or another. In newly released data, the U.K.’s National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children says that in the past year, it counseled nearly 4,100 children and teens who grappled with loneliness. Some who needed help were as young as 6.
孤独是一个以不同方式跨越所有年龄组的问题。在最新公布的数据,英国“全国防止虐待儿童协会”说,过去的一年来,该组织为近4100努力应对孤独的儿童和青少年做咨询。一些需要帮助的人只有6岁。
"I’ve thought about ending my life because I think it’s pointless me being here,” said one anonymous 15-year-old in a transcript provided by the NSPCC. “I don’t feel like anyone cares about me, and I’m lonely all the time."
“我想结束我的生命,因为我觉得,我在这里是毫无意义的,”NSPCC提供的一名15岁的孩子在匿名文本中写道“我不觉得有人关心我,我一直孤独。”
A 16-year-old said, “I don’t feel like I fit in anywhere, and I have no friends. I hate being this unhappy, but I can’t control it. I feel so alone. Whenever I think about the future, I get scared that I’ll always be by myself because I’m not good-looking or funny enough.”
一个16岁的人说:“我不觉得有任何的地方能够容纳我,我没有朋友。我讨厌这种不快乐,但我不能控制它。我感到如此孤独。每当我想到未来,我都会害怕,我可能一直会独自一人,因为我不好看也很无趣。”