DISARMING THE NARCISSIST: SURVIVING AND THRIVING WITH THE SELF-ABSORBED
作者: Wendy Behary / 7115次阅读 时间: 2010年11月20日
来源: New Harbinger Publications 标签: NARCISSIST 图式治疗 自恋
DISARMING THE NARCISSIST: SURVIVING AND THRIVING WITH THE SELF-ABSORBED 作 者:Wendy Behary
出 版:New Harbinger Publications
书 号:1608827607
原 价:¥116.60元
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DISARMING THE NARCISSIST: SURVIVING AND THRIVING WITH THE SELF-ABSORBED
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What can you do with the narcissistic people in your life? They’re frustrating (and maybe even intimidating) to deal with. But sometimes you genuinely care for one of them. And you might need to interact with others in social or professional settings. Sometimes it doesn’t won’t work to simply ignore them. You need to find a way of communicating effectively with narcissists, getting your point across and meeting your needs while sidestepping unproductive power struggles and senseless arguments.This book offers several strategies for dealing effectively with someone who is at the centre of his or her own universe. Readers will learn how to move past the narcissist’s defences with compassionate, empathetic communication. They’ll learn to understand the worldview and coping styles of narcissists and why it’s often sad and lonely to be a narcissist. By anticipating and avoiding certain hot-button issues, readers will discover ways to relate to narcissists without triggering aggression. By validating some common narcissistic concerns, readers will find out how to be heard in conversation with a narcissist.
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Wendy Behary, LCSW, is founder and clinical director of the Cognitive Therapy Center of New Jersey and a faculty member at the Cognitive Therapy Center and Schema Therapy Institute of New York. She is also a founding fellow of the Academy of Cognitive Therapy. She maintains a private practice, specializing in narcissism and couples therapy.心理学空间M%z4G m6Z(@@-IY"~$u}
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Preface  前言

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Acknowledgments  致谢

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Introduction  引言心理学空间RX.V gE_,c

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  An Era of Narcissism   自恋的时代

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1 Framing the Situation: Toward an Understanding of Narcissism 建构情境:对自恋的理解

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  The Narcissist at a Glance 一目了然的自恋者心理学空间x(vs^1h{

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  Covert Narcissism隐性自恋

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  Healthy Narcissism健康的自恋

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3 Getting Captured: Identifying Your Personal Traps被捕获:识别你的个人陷阱心理学空间~$x,_ g C

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Mef*C*S XR0  Hope Springs Eternal: The Capacity to Learn and Change希望永恒:学习和改变的能力

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  Four Stages of Transformation转型的四个阶段

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5 Paying Attention: Facing Difficult Encounters with a Narcissist注意:面对与自恋狂的不同遭遇

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  The Four Most Common Masks of the Narcissist and How to Deal with Them自恋者最常见的四种面具和如何处理它们

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6 Making an Exit: Escaping Perilous Narcissism走出困境:逃离危险的自恋心理学空间5Z0r'fm;r/t/S$L2L

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  Identifying Perilous Narcissism识别危险的自恋

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  Excuses, Excuses借口,借口

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  Deciding Whether to Stay or Go决定是留下还是走

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