DISARMING THE NARCISSIST: SURVIVING AND THRIVING WITH THE SELF-ABSORBED
作者: Wendy Behary / 7097次阅读 时间: 2010年11月20日
来源: New Harbinger Publications 标签: NARCISSIST 图式治疗 自恋
DISARMING THE NARCISSIST: SURVIVING AND THRIVING WITH THE SELF-ABSORBED 作 者:Wendy Behary
出 版:New Harbinger Publications
书 号:1608827607
原 价:¥116.60元
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Qn!u Q[G/_0What can you do with the narcissistic people in your life? They’re frustrating (and maybe even intimidating) to deal with. But sometimes you genuinely care for one of them. And you might need to interact with others in social or professional settings. Sometimes it doesn’t won’t work to simply ignore them. You need to find a way of communicating effectively with narcissists, getting your point across and meeting your needs while sidestepping unproductive power struggles and senseless arguments.This book offers several strategies for dealing effectively with someone who is at the centre of his or her own universe. Readers will learn how to move past the narcissist’s defences with compassionate, empathetic communication. They’ll learn to understand the worldview and coping styles of narcissists and why it’s often sad and lonely to be a narcissist. By anticipating and avoiding certain hot-button issues, readers will discover ways to relate to narcissists without triggering aggression. By validating some common narcissistic concerns, readers will find out how to be heard in conversation with a narcissist.
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.F;w)H;E8Z[0Wendy Behary, LCSW, is founder and clinical director of the Cognitive Therapy Center of New Jersey and a faculty member at the Cognitive Therapy Center and Schema Therapy Institute of New York. She is also a founding fellow of the Academy of Cognitive Therapy. She maintains a private practice, specializing in narcissism and couples therapy.心理学空间~ s%b/K*g c[
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Foreword  序言心理学空间!l4hhhm1M

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Introduction  引言

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  An Era of Narcissism   自恋的时代

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  The Wisdom of Empathy   共情的智慧

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1 Framing the Situation: Toward an Understanding of Narcissism 建构情境:对自恋的理解心理学空间:u6z2eEr$r'L?C

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  The Narcissist at a Glance 一目了然的自恋者心理学空间 Q!DRE1y

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  What Is a Narcissist? 什么是自恋?

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  Origins of Narcissism 自恋的起源

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  Cognitive Therapy认知疗法

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  Foundations of Security: Biology and Attachment安全基础:生物学与依恋心理学空间vRkH#G5uDE

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4 Overcoming the Obstacles: Communication Pitfalls, Snags, and Glitches克服障碍:沟通的陷阱,障碍,和故障心理学空间5H v!XP!~2wA M

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  Making Sense of Our Senses: Messages from the Brain and Body感知我们的感官:来自大脑和身体的信息

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6 Making an Exit: Escaping Perilous Narcissism走出困境:逃离危险的自恋心理学空间5F__I^ p5Q

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8 Making the Most of a Difficult Situation: Seven Gifts of Communication with a Narcissist在最困难的局面:与自恋者沟通七个礼物

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