DISARMING THE NARCISSIST: SURVIVING AND THRIVING WITH THE SELF-ABSORBED
作者: Wendy Behary / 7095次阅读 时间: 2010年11月20日
来源: New Harbinger Publications 标签: NARCISSIST 图式治疗 自恋
DISARMING THE NARCISSIST: SURVIVING AND THRIVING WITH THE SELF-ABSORBED 作 者:Wendy Behary
出 版:New Harbinger Publications
书 号:1608827607
原 价:¥116.60元
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I*i2}0~R yY MSn)X0What can you do with the narcissistic people in your life? They’re frustrating (and maybe even intimidating) to deal with. But sometimes you genuinely care for one of them. And you might need to interact with others in social or professional settings. Sometimes it doesn’t won’t work to simply ignore them. You need to find a way of communicating effectively with narcissists, getting your point across and meeting your needs while sidestepping unproductive power struggles and senseless arguments.This book offers several strategies for dealing effectively with someone who is at the centre of his or her own universe. Readers will learn how to move past the narcissist’s defences with compassionate, empathetic communication. They’ll learn to understand the worldview and coping styles of narcissists and why it’s often sad and lonely to be a narcissist. By anticipating and avoiding certain hot-button issues, readers will discover ways to relate to narcissists without triggering aggression. By validating some common narcissistic concerns, readers will find out how to be heard in conversation with a narcissist.心理学空间6qNE6PP,i&U`U4O%a
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i3Zl+vbz0Wendy Behary, LCSW, is founder and clinical director of the Cognitive Therapy Center of New Jersey and a faculty member at the Cognitive Therapy Center and Schema Therapy Institute of New York. She is also a founding fellow of the Academy of Cognitive Therapy. She maintains a private practice, specializing in narcissism and couples therapy.
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Contents  内容

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OI)e)M2r/S:v0  An Era of Narcissism   自恋的时代心理学空间F3a }8A#q%qr f{X:s

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  The Wisdom of Empathy   共情的智慧

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  Indelible Imprints   不可磨灭的印记

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1 Framing the Situation: Toward an Understanding of Narcissism 建构情境:对自恋的理解心理学空间&S @? a*F

TXF.c2wk-B9A}0d0  The Narcissist at a Glance 一目了然的自恋者

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  The Narcissist’s Strategy for Dealing with Unmet Needs处理未满足需求的自恋者的策略

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.Y6}+|EhI'B0  The Difference between Male and Female Narcissists 男性和女性的自恋者的区别心理学空间(t7O)N!oI m8?,]Tu

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2 Understanding the Anatomy of Personality: Schemas and the Brain理解人格的剖析:图式和大脑心理学空间&t$x1aX%x,rd

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  Schema Therapy图式疗法

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3 Getting Captured: Identifying Your Personal Traps被捕获:识别你的个人陷阱

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  Why the Narcissist Triggers You为什么自恋者触发了你心理学空间%X5~!v,|P\%H

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  Breaking Free from Your Mechanical Habits摆脱你的机械习惯心理学空间~|@_-?~

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  The Power of Mindful Awareness正念意识的力量

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  Identifying Perilous Narcissism识别危险的自恋

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7 Using Empathic Confrontation: A Winning Strategy for Interpersonal Effectiveness使用共情对峙:人际效能的制胜策略

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  Mirroring the Other镜映他者

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CIxtd-T_1Cu;s08 Making the Most of a Difficult Situation: Seven Gifts of Communication with a Narcissist在最困难的局面:与自恋者沟通七个礼物

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