作　者：Wendy Behary
出　版：New Harbinger Publications
书　号：1608827607
原　价：￥116.60元

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6n'Za2r5[m+F/Ua0DISARMING THE NARCISSIST: SURVIVING AND THRIVING WITH THE SELF-ABSORBED
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Book ID/图书代码：09700007B17539
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What can you do with the narcissistic people in your life? They’re frustrating (and maybe even intimidating) to deal with. But sometimes you genuinely care for one of them. And you might need to interact with others in social or professional settings. Sometimes it doesn’t won’t work to simply ignore them. You need to find a way of communicating effectively with narcissists, getting your point across and meeting your needs while sidestepping unproductive power struggles and senseless arguments.This book offers several strategies for dealing effectively with someone who is at the centre of his or her own universe. Readers will learn how to move past the narcissist’s defences with compassionate, empathetic communication. They’ll learn to understand the worldview and coping styles of narcissists and why it’s often sad and lonely to be a narcissist. By anticipating and avoiding certain hot-button issues, readers will discover ways to relate to narcissists without triggering aggression. By validating some common narcissistic concerns, readers will find out how to be heard in conversation with a narcissist.心理学空间7A1})a{0u*mZD5x7J

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目录

$LQW{-o0X|0Praise for the first edition　　对初版的赞美心理学空间K S9B&KC.?&h

Contents　　内容

Foreword　　序言心理学空间;_.MIz1u9s

Preface　　前言心理学空间*l \G hJ6Ft

Acknowledgments　　致谢

Introduction　　引言心理学空间w s(l(~8B
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　　An Era of Narcissism 　　自恋的时代

.GEeyD$W5g6e+j0　　The Wisdom of Empathy 　　共情的智慧心理学空间 q"dgU!|3ajRFk_

　　Indelible Imprints 　　不可磨灭的印记

-o*^/s$oaJZ(b0　　Pivotal Influences　　关键的影响心理学空间{Y4U hjLh

　　Shared Wisdom　　共享智慧

1 Framing the Situation: Toward an Understanding of Narcissism 建构情境：对自恋的理解

2U%xW:\D _3z0　　The Narcissist at a Glance 一目了然的自恋者

FN;mju!T(Y(r9um M0　　What Is a Narcissist? 什么是自恋？心理学空间%_RWG;k$w;t(iH:M

　　Origins of Narcissism 自恋的起源

　　The Magician: Disappearing When It’s Time to Focus on You魔术师：当你集中注意力的时候就消失了。

N:q)`d3g%P(q9X0　　Hiding Behind the Armor of Coping Modes躲在应对方式的盔甲后面心理学空间,iacYncs9X_

*y5w2RX6Y9cEX)AN/f0　　The Narcissist’s Strategy for Dealing with Unmet Needs处理未满足需求的自恋者的策略心理学空间#c)b^-mT(vf

　　Covert Narcissism隐性自恋

　　The Difference between Male and Female Narcissists 男性和女性的自恋者的区别心理学空间cJ#S/u8n

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2 Understanding the Anatomy of Personality: Schemas and the Brain理解人格的剖析：图式和大脑

　　Cognitive Therapy认知疗法心理学空间4B;C/b8Tq-bN;s/iHD

　　Schema Therapy图式疗法

　　Foundations of Security: Biology and Attachment安全基础：生物学与依恋

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?5Iww3Ss0　　Conclusion结论

;IPm|t03 Getting Captured: Identifying Your Personal Traps被捕获：识别你的个人陷阱

　　Comfort Zones: The Challenges of Living with and Changing Your Habits舒适区：生活与改变习惯的挑战心理学空间y*T"_7k.d Y m#vV

H#K:d V7D3~S0　　Why the Narcissist Triggers You为什么自恋者触发了你

　　Developing an Authentic Voice发展真实的声音心理学空间j:~)L'NF0E

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4 Overcoming the Obstacles: Communication Pitfalls, Snags, and Glitches克服障碍：沟通的陷阱，障碍，和故障心理学空间8FA'nf\Y

　　Four Stages of Transformation转型的四个阶段心理学空间2[xM5rN8iS8ul

　　Cues and Clues: Knowing Why You Get Triggered提示与线索：知道你为什么被触发心理学空间O$e:O_Rv5p(a

{p[X}T0N.O0　　Making Sense of Our Senses: Messages from the Brain and Body感知我们的感官：来自大脑和身体的信息

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y/n!Q2HA p0　　Beyond Fight, Flight, or Freeze超越战斗、逃跑或僵动

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5 Paying Attention: Facing Difficult Encounters with a Narcissist注意：面对与自恋狂的不同遭遇心理学空间_NuT~]

　　Breaking Free from Your Mechanical Habits摆脱你的机械习惯

o0R8K,D[)b Sfo-l0　　The Power of Mindful Awareness正念意识的力量

L_/d`"]Q(a;N0　　The Importance of Practice实践的重要性

.QN3QZ\3\0Gi0　　How Mindfulness Helps You Interact with the Narcissist正念如何互动可以帮助你与自恋者

;d%er Eur0Qe9c4TY0　　The Rewards of Mindfulness正念的回报心理学空间 I&r:Zc X5X

　　The Four Most Common Masks of the Narcissist and How to Deal with Them自恋者最常见的四种面具和如何处理它们心理学空间%W)^.S c\n|.e

#\2X)m+q?W7m@ b3L0　　Conclusion结论

6 Making an Exit: Escaping Perilous Narcissism走出困境：逃离危险的自恋心理学空间\]9~[9H `-K5V

WvbD+@8p0　　Identifying Perilous Narcissism识别危险的自恋心理学空间WM"HA+R:_^v2zD

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Kb|)Kz \r0　　Drawing the Line画线心理学空间/w1X+M$m~\

　　Deciding Whether to Stay or Go决定是留下还是走心理学空间b6Ehq/lap-Sb(W

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BQ u#FE.A6ys2@{^07 Using Empathic Confrontation: A Winning Strategy for Interpersonal Effectiveness使用共情对峙：人际效能的制胜策略

　　Distinguishing between Empathy and Compassion区分共情和悲悯

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\ B:J)Xo t0　　A Brief Look at the Science of Empathy科学共情简论

　　Mirroring the Other镜映他者

　　Under His Skin体贴入微

faU/rzh7?0　　Keeping the Narcissist on the Hook勾住自恋者

　　Creating Leverage for Change为改变创造杠杆

　　The Role of Empathy in the Therapeutic Relationship共情在治疗关系中的作用

d(b}l'y1I:u0　　Conclusion结论

8 Making the Most of a Difficult Situation: Seven Gifts of Communication with a Narcissist在最困难的局面：与自恋者沟通七个礼物心理学空间Kl%B"TO3H}*u f

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　　Presenting Your Gifts呈现你的礼物心理学空间:MC {Zxv

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