Bowen Family Systems Theory and Practice: Illustration and Critique
作者: Jenny Brown / 21552次阅读 时间: 2011年11月23日
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The Barret family were referred for family therapy by the individual therapist ofthe sixteen year old anorectic daughter,Tanya.Tanya had been hospitalised by her doctor the previous month when her weight levels were considered life threatening.To date the family had not been involved in her treatment but were now feeling that they could no longer remain on the sidelines when the risk levels were so high. Hospitalisation had also intensified family reactivity, with Tanya blaming her father for allowing her freedom to be taken away, both parents feeling angry that she could allow herself to fall so low, and her nineteen year old sister questioning how Tanya could put her family through so much worry. 心理学空间.?&wGm3g(pg
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Stage one: Calming the system
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s8Jk;@G {Ps*\-e0When a family member is exhibiting life threatening symptoms, it is not realistic to expect that anxiety can be lowered to non reactive levels. In the case of the Barret family my goal was to take the focus away fromTanya's weight sufficiently to enable the family to explore each of their roles in the anxious family patterns.The other systems involved in her treatment were framed as providing her with support and monitoring the risk of her symptoms. She received individual therapy where the therapist focused on supporting her through adoles- cent life cycle tasks. Her doctor was responsible for monitoring her medical condition and weight gain. Family sessions could therefore concentrate on family process in dealing withTanya's eating patterns.
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Locating the presenting problem in the broader family context re- vealed that the family was in the process of negotiating some signifi- cant changes. Around the onset of Tanya's pronounced weight loss, her older sister, Roslyn, had moved away from home to begin medical studies at university. Roslyn had previously been considered the rebel of the family but was now clearly labelled as the `golden girl' who would make them all proud with her academic success. Family roles and the theme of economic success were identified. Mr. Barret had recently received a promotion which necessitated moving to another city. Mrs. Barret had left her job as a nurse and had not been work- ing for the nine months following the family move. Gender themes were becoming evident asTanya spoke of how personally she was iden- tifying with her mother's loss of professional role. While there were numerous family changes that could inform hypotheses about her symptoms, my primary focus was the operation of family triangles in dealing with anxiety. Tanya expressed her triangled role in her parents'issues as she spoke about their emotional life. She described the stress of her father's work and reported passionately on her mother's loss of status since giving up her nursing job. She perceived her mother's life as empty, and she herself felt similarly empty and directionless.
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The fusion in nuclear family relationships was striking, with family members reacting to either comfort or criticise each other. During the sessions, the six year old daughter Liz passed tissues to those who looked upset, or distracted by using puppets from the play box to bring some humour into the room. I reflected to the family just how closely `wired' to each other's feelings they all were and how readily they seemed to switch from their own issues to focus on the emotional intensity of others. Questions were asked that encouraged an awareness of this fusion, for example: 心理学空间2Rr EtT%O
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[ToTanya]. `I know you've become an expert at being the emo- tional voice for your parents but what would you say, just this once, if you could speak for your own needs?' 心理学空间(EG,EUp!\ s s6x

8[0P$i d S'a0[To Mr. Barret].`Do you have any sense of when you first started to takeTanya's symptoms so personally--as if they were directed at hurting you?'
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Nuclear family triangles were tracked around family members' responses to Tanya's eating patterns. A typical sequence would be Mrs. Barret watchingTanya's eating behaviour closely, with Tanya becoming increasingly withdrawn. Mrs. Barret would accuseTanya of bingeing and purging, with the latter responding in tears, saying that nobody in the family would trust her. Mr. Barret who had been hearing a daily account of his wife's suspicions, would begin yelling at Tanya, saying what a disappointment she was to him. Mrs. Barret would feel sorry for her daughter and move closer in support. At this point, when Tanya's symptoms threatened to increase distance and tension in the marriage, Mrs. Barret would suggest ways to her husband and daughter about how they could make up. Tanya con- tinued to refuse to eat with the family but would set up a joint outing for herself and her Dad.
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Stage 3: Expanding the view to previous generations
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.s%WKz7{M~0While seeking to draw out the repetitive patterns in the current family experience, I also look for ways to connect present tensions to multigenerational themes.
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hp*M:K.vo-VG0Exploration of both parents' family of origin revealed potent themes that fed into the intense struggle of the nuclear family triangle betweenTanya, her fatherand her mother.While ever Mr Barret and Mrs Barret could worry about her, they did not have to address the relationship disappointments that they had hoped would be mended through their marriage. 心理学空间.GW$Q1Jp/r~

C \/uqL*F Dz4o%^i0A key task of ongoing therapy was to help the parents separate these unresolved family of origin issues from their interactions with Tanya. Both parents had been in the same middle child position as Tanya, which had intensified their identification with her. Reflecting on their own adolescence and their relationship with their parents helped Mr Barret and Mrs Barretto assume a more objective stance towards their daughter. Mrs Barret was able to stop herself encour- aging Tanya to look after her father following an argument. Mrs Barret was also able to see how her striving to create a different relationship from the distant and critical one she had with her own mother was getting in the way of her being able to set any limits with Tanya. Mr Barret was able to start viewingTanya as a separate person from himself or his father and was thus more able to notice her unique strengths. This shift was a particularly painful journey for Mr Barret, who recounted his memories of his alcoholic father, who had died in an emaciated state after choking on his own vomit. The parallel toTanya's symptoms helped to make sense of his intense reactivity in their relationship.
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*gP#k]6OoU._nN0Tanya was able to hear that herparents'reactions were more about where they had come from than about what kind of a daughter she was. During therapy she struggled to cope with the shift in family patterns. She was excluded from the triangle with her parents where she had occupied a pivotal role in helping to regulate their closeness. To assist with this shift, some sessions were held with her and her older sister Roslyn, so that the sisters could establish a connection as young adults sharing similar life cycle tasks, rather than being their parents'caretakers. A couple of months down the track, she mentioned that she had been writing to Roslyn and that they were sharing information about boyfriends that their parents were not privy to.
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F'b2[N5Ai5n+C$T0After about five months of therapy, her weight had increased to a level which put her out of the medical risk category. At this time Mr Barret and Mrs Barret felt that they wanted to focus on some of their own family of origin issues as a couple and individually.Tanya was busy rehearsing for a school play in which she had the female lead, so she asked if she could take a break from family sessions and let her parents come on their own. 心理学空间U^2qXB)H7Q
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){uWL l#beh l0At a time when family therapy is rediscovering its psychoanalytic roots (Quadrio, 1986; Luepnitz, 1988; Flaskas, 1993; James, 1992), it is important to be clear about the distinctions between psychodynamic and Bowenian approaches. While both models are compre- hensive in accounting for many aspects of human experi- ence, the essential difference is that Bowen's focus is not the intrapsychic experience of the individual. It focuses on the structure and workings of the system so that the individual can forge a different systemic role. While in psychoanalysis, self understanding comes through the vehicle of the therapist^client relationship, in Bowenian therapy it comes from the between-session, planned action of the `self in the system'. 心理学空间2M)cn Mv2KhaN8k

2w_Y?iEC?Q0In giving an overview of Bowen's model, this paper risks oversimplifying its in-depth formulation of family process. My aim has been to summarise Bowen's core concepts and to give a flavour of how these influence the focus of therapy. One needs to be mindful however, of potential pitfalls when using a family of origin model. Bowen's focus on the distant to solve the proximate may take families on therapeutic paths which go beyond their request for the shortest possible road to symptom relief. Without recent significant socio-political additions, Bowen's theory decontextualises relationship patterns that are powerfully informed by gender, ethnicity and class.
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z8MB*TW C/NY'J0Those who adhere to a Bowenian framework speak of the appeal of its attention to complex family patterns in both vertical and horizontal time. Perhaps what is most distinctive about Bowen's theory amongst systemic thera- pies, is that it directs therapists to consider their own roles in their families of origin so that they can person- ally experience the theory in order to appreciate its clinical application.
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Jenny Brown would like to know who the other therapists are in Australia and New Zealand who are influenced by Bowen. Bowenians in Oz tend to feel very isolated. Contact Jenny at 2 Oswald St Mosman NSW 2088, djkbrown@ozemail.com.au ANZJ Fam. Ther., 1999, Vol. 20, No. 2 103
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