Kleinian game: "I'm rubber, you are glue;everything you say bounces off of me,and sticks to you."

Julia Schwartz

 克莱恩式的游戏：“我是弹球你是胶水，你所说的每一句话都从我身边弹开，然后紧紧的粘着你。”

 [O]ne of the greatest difficulties encountered in bringing about favorable change is this almost inescapable illusion that there is a perduring, unique, simple existent self, [which is] in some strange fashion, the patient's, or the subject person's, private property.

Harry Stack Sullivan - 1950

引发良好的改变中遇到的最大困难是不可避免的有一个持续的，独一无二，简单存在的自体幻觉，某种奇怪的形式是，(咨询师是）病人或者来访者的私有财产。 

 An analyzable patient is a patient with whom the analyst can maintain the illusion of neutrality.

Merton Gill - 1982

 可分析的来访者其实是这样一类来访者，和他在一起，分析师可以持续中立的错觉。

Take a Jimmy Hendrix guitar solo and listen to it without any backing - 
it sounds like a terrible noise .... 
until one hears it with bass and drums, and it becomes the most beautiful music; 
so too, the anguish of our patients is a terrible noise that exasperates us ... 
until, drawing on the resonance of our own souls, 
if we find the right backing and amplification,
a deep, sad music appears.

Ramon Riera & George Atwood

听吉米吉米·亨德里克斯的吉他独奏，没有任何背景音乐：

听起来像是一片糟糕的噪音

直到听到了低音和鼓声，然后它就变成一首最美丽的音乐

所以，也一样，来访者的痛苦也是一首噪音，当它干扰了我们，

直到，我们的灵魂做出了共鸣。

如果我们找到了合适的配乐然后进行适当的收缩

一首深沉，忧伤的乐曲出现了

  One who never feels right enough, cannot say that he or she is actually right.

Ramon Riera

一个人如果从来没有感觉良好，就不能说他真的是正确的。

 The idea that one has identified the Satanic is itself the Satanic(?)

George Atwood & Christopher Atwood

一个人能识别出魔鬼是因为他本身就是魔鬼。

"...an element of my psychology that analysis could not reach [was] the feeling that I would be all right if someone would split my head open (front to back) and take out something (tumour, abscess, sinus, suppuration) that exists and makes itself felt right in the centre behind the root of the nose."

Donald Winnicott (from a letter to a colleague)

在我的心理治疗中有一个元素，那就是如果有人从头到尾把我的大脑劈开，把里面的一些东西如肿瘤，脓疮，窦等取出，从鼻根的中心开始，让它感觉良好的时候，治疗师不会有“我完全很好”的感觉。

a. In a life constituted entirely by lies, the only authentic action possible is suicide.

b. In a life constituted entirely by lies, the ultimate act of compliance is suicide.

George Atwood

 人的一生完全的由谎言所组成，唯一真实的行动可能就是自杀。

 人的一生完全的由谎言所组成，终极服从的执行是自杀。

 In the spirit of Winnicott's famous remark that there is no such thing as an infant, it can also be said that there is no such thing as a mother, no such thing as a patient, no such thing as an analyst, and even no such thing as a person.

在温尼科特著名的核心观念中，没有婴儿，没有母亲，没有来访者，没有分析师，甚至没有作为人这回事。

 An unspoken counterpart to the idea of the selfobject in self psychology is that of the objectself, a self constituted exclusively by the needs and requirements of the object - inasmuch as the cohesion of the objectself is entirely a borrowed one, it can be said that an objectself disintegrates into authentic chaos upon encountering a selfobject.

George Atwood

在自体心理学里面，不曾发表的和自体客体相对应的概念是客体自体。自体唯一的是有客体的需要构成的。因为客体自体的凝聚力完全是借来的。可以这么说，客体自体遇到自体客体之后就瓦解成真正的混乱。

 The problem with running up against someone who knows what's what, is that it destroys our confidence in our own confusion.

George Atwood & Dorthy Levinson

偶遇一个内行的问题在于，他在我们自己的困惑中摧毁了我们的自信。