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On “Envy and Gratitude”关于《嫉羡感恩
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I am going to present a summary and then some thoughts on Melanie Klein’s paper “Envy and Gratitude”, first published in 1957, and more generally on Kleinian technique. We will look at key concepts and terms such as greed, envy and jealousy, as well as guilt , gratitude and generosity.

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x1|!O6BYU4O9_4M0But let us begin with a piece written last year. In his book published in 2013, The Examined Life, psychoanalyst Stephen Grosz writes movingly about the problem of Parents envying their children, and how it impoverishes and spoils matters for all parties. The prose is simple, yet it conveys a taster of the more complex ideas to be described in the rest of today’s lecture, and signposts some concepts like destructiveness, spoiling, impoverishment of relationships and grievance心理学空间I&?M#b1\

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让我们从精神分析师Stephen Grosz去年的一篇文章开始。 在他2013年出版的书《验过的生活》中,他生动地描述了父母对孩子嫉羡的问题, 以及这些嫉羡是如何使所有的聚会变得贫瘠、被糟蹋了。文章很简单,但传递了今天的演讲中要描述的更加复杂的味道,即一些标志杆一样的概念,如毁灭、宠坏、关系的贫瘠和委屈。(Grosz, 93-95页)

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The definition of envy used by Klein is “the angry feeling that another person possesses and enjoys something desirable, often accompanied by the impulse to take it away or spoil it”.  Contemporary authors also recognise envy as a painful affliction.心理学空间/Fs5Ay&j#N|;Z/s

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克莱因对于嫉羡的定义是“对另一个人占有和享受一个人所渴望的东西的生气的感受,常常伴随着想要夺走或毁坏这个东西的感觉。”。 当代作家们也认为嫉羡是一种痛苦的情感心理学空间XMU"P8he-X

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克莱因相信嫉羡冲动、天性中的口腔和肛门施虐是来自于生命早期、最初针对于母亲的乳房的, 然后是针对于父母的性交的。克莱因把嫉羡看作是原初毁灭性的证明,在某种程度上是“继承的”,是本质上的东西,会因为外在的困难而加重。她感到对于好客体的攻击会导致一系列的后果,包括:
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    在嫉羡的禁忌征候里, 克莱因把感恩看作是爱的表达,是生本能,是嫉羡的对立面。

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2 History of Envy in PA (Psychoanalysis)

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术语“嫉羡”在精神分析里有很长的历史。心理学空间4nS8K Y?E

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In 1908 Freud introduced the concept of “envy of the penis”, as a key psychological problem in the development of women.心理学空间/K x2]l[h!^

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1908年freud 介绍了“阴茎嫉羡”这个概念,作为女性发育的心理问题的关键点。

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O ^y!Uft-Zvxs0Freud’s assertion was that the little girl becomes aware of lacking a penis upon noticing the genital anatomy of the two sexes. She feels inferior, as Freud put it “lesser in so important a respect” (1925, 253) She thinks that shedidpossess a penis and has been castrated as a punishment for masturbation and/or imagines that she was deprived of a penis by a neglectful and unloving mother. She envies the penis for its size, masturbatory ease, and its manipulation of the urinary stream. Lacking it, she turns away from the mother to the father to obtain one from him; and the wish to have a baby is born. The wish for possession of a penis is never fully given up, it always persists in the girl and may be impervious to analysis. This penis envy was seen as “the primary organizer” of the female psyche ( Moore and Fine, quoted in Akhtar (2009), p 205) and underlines many character traits eg competitiveness with men, preferring a weak and castrated male for a partner, and neurotic symptoms such as kleptomania and vaginsmus in adult women.   Gradually the concept came under increasing criticism for many reasons (Akhtar describes 10 of which I will enumerate a few) :心理学空间0vc pFs*Q]#`

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  • The entire concept of penis envy and Freud’s use of the expression of the “superior organ” for the penis represented the phallocentrism of a narrative written by and for men

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1)阴茎嫉羡的整个概念以及Freud使用“上等的器官”这种方式表达阴茎,代表了阴茎中心主义者是男人,也是被男人描述。心理学空间 Cd eg*VY rd*bJ

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2)作为失望的男性气概的女性心理发育的描述(Moore和Fine,1990,140页,引用于Akhtar,206页),不仅仅在理论上是偏见和贬低,在婴儿观察研究的光芒下也被经验为是战不住脚的。心理学空间 OyO D(` s:Q{:G

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:g$@ V'M|2rw0   Rather than emanating from auto-erotic and narcissistic factor, penis envy arose from object relations; it was a manifest content that hid all sorts of affects and longings

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4)与其说其起源于自体性欲或自恋的因素,不如说起源于客体关系;这些明显的内容隐藏了所有的情感和渴望。

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现在我们来看看Klein,她尽管深受Freud的影响,却并不认为阴茎嫉羡是嫉羡的主要原型。

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 Continuing with the history of Envy in PA writing, Freud, subsequently in 1921, in “Group psychology and the psychology of the ego”  described how members of a group can forego inter-group envy and rivalries in a common idealisation of the group leader .

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"I@$m-HX8a.wN$]`0继续回顾精神分析史中的嫉羡,Freud在1921年,在《团体心理和自我心理》描述团体中的成员理想化团体领袖时是如何放弃相互间的嫉羡和敌对。心理学空间wq%Th/~~Z:o

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Karl Abraham in 1919 wrote about patients who begrudge the efforts and skill of the analyst, to appreciate him, stubbornly refusing to cooperate with him and trying to usurp his place. Abraham described envy as an unmistakable feature in this and saw it as an oral trait.心理学空间4rB[+C*v

F*n D]wZei%^0Karl Abraham在1919年写到嫉妒分析师的成就和技能的病人,他们欣赏分析师,顽强地拒绝和分析师合作,试图篡夺分析师的位置。Abraham描述嫉羡在这里有“不会犯错的”的特征,有口腔期的特质。心理学空间*Np'nb k0kg f@

.E|2A.m v8Py&`0In her paper entitled “Jealousy as a mechanism of defence” Joan Riviere in 1932 suggested that in some primitive states of mind, the jealousy apparently linked to “triangular situations “may be nearer to envy. Here the deepest wish was to rob the mother of her possessions. And in 1936 Karen Horney explicitly linked the “negative therapeutic reaction” with envy of the analyst in other words, a wish to spoil the analyst’s work.心理学空间[G i pf5sPc%d

;q,l!@3cq b q x v0在Joan Riviere 1932年名为《作为防御的嫉妒》一文中,他提出:在思维的初级阶段,与“三角关系情形”有关的嫉妒可能最接近嫉羡。最深的愿望就是抢走母亲的所有物(乳房)。1936年Karen Horney明确地把“负性治疗反应”与对分析师的嫉羡连接起来,换句话说,就是破坏分析师工作的愿望。心理学空间/K8}+dm)WAQ

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1940年Hanna Segal和Rosenfeld 开始分析精神分裂症的成年病人,他们描述了这些病人如何典型地“准备上演对好客体的大量攻击,就是因为客体的好。”对这些嫉羡的极端案例的分析有助于勾画出这些现象。

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But back to Melanie Klein. Her first reference to envy is in 1928 in her paper “Early stages of the Oedipus conflict”. She sees it as emerging at the earliest stage of the Oedipus complex, as a desire in both sexes to spoil the mother’s possessions, particularly the father’s penis, which in fantasy the mother contains. In her work dated 1932, entitled “The Psychoanalysis of Children”, she gives a detailed clinical account of that small child’s envious attacks on the phantasied parental sexual relationship. She considers envy to be one of the motive forces for the fantasy of pushing into the mother’s body in order to discover and scoop out its contents. Interestingly, in this paper she describes such destructive fantasies as being linked to the epistemophilic instinct, implying the interesting paradox that the destructive fantasies have intrinsically positive value. However, in Klein’s view, such fantasies are also the deeper sources of guilt and lead to fears of harbouring hostile objects engaged in deadly intercourse, and/or threatening the self. She thus considers “actual” harmonious parents to be deeply reassuring in this respect.心理学空间%q ^!_$E}"XSIoU

*Z1F%?5T1LGkJ E0回到Klein,在她第一份涉及到嫉羡的1928的文章《俄狄浦斯冲突的早期阶段》,她把嫉羡看成是俄狄浦斯情节最早期阶段发生的,无论男孩女孩都有的破坏母亲所有物的愿望,尤其是是想象中母亲还容纳了父亲的阴茎。在她1932年的名为《儿童精神分析》的书中,她详细地描述了临床上小孩对于幻想中父母性关系的嫉羡的攻击。她认为嫉羡是幻想挤进母亲身体去发现和掏空内容物的动机因素之一。有趣的是,在这篇文章中她描述了一些与求知本能有连接的毁灭性幻想,暗指有趣的似是而非,即毁灭性幻想拥有本质上的积极价值。无论如何,在Klein的观点中,这些幻想也是内疚的深层来源,导致对怀着敌意的客体在从事可怕性交的恐惧,和(或)威胁到自体。于是她认为“实际上”和谐的父母是这方面的深层保障。心理学空间/d;V*IiWFX

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In Klein’s (1945) paper “the Oedipus complex in the light of the early anxieties” she discusses envy of the mother as an ordinary part of the Oedipus complex in both genders . For the girl, she describes how penis envy and the castration complex are exacerbated by frustration of the more basic oedipal desires. She thinks that children may at one time believe that mother has a penis as a male attribute, but unlike Freud she regards this as far less important than the idea that mother contains father’s penis.心理学空间1Pw2bzQ5O'l1j

/]^}!yu&ne0Klein1945年的文章《早期焦虑的俄狄浦斯情节的曙光》中,她讨论了两性俄狄浦斯情节的正常的对母亲的嫉羡。她描述了女孩是如何阴茎嫉羡,描述了更加基础的俄狄浦斯愿望的挫败是如何恶化了阉割情节。她认为孩子们有时候可能相信母亲象男人一样拥有一个阴茎,但是不同于Freud,她觉得这不如母亲包含有父亲的阴茎那么重要。心理学空间U%}EL*m!^8G4Z,R

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在她1952年《移情的起源》一文中,她阐明了她称为“嫉羡和嫉妒两者的原型情形”。强有力的嫉羡,与口欲愿望的挫败一起组成一种幻想,即其他人(举一个典型的例子,比如父亲)获得了令自己觊觎的满足,并导致一种对于父母永久结合着、在口腔、肛门和生殖器本质上相互满足的幻想。心理学空间ShrD6lO

0}7jp7I%jmy:?0In her subsequent paper “On identification.” (1955), Klein then uses a literary example to illustrate how envy could be a factor driving a person to use extreme projective identification.

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Her seminal paper entitled “Envy and Gratitude” was published in 1957. Here for the first time she  explicitly pairs the two concepts. She refers the first time to envy of the breast earlier discussed by Riviere in 1932.

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我现在尝试描述Klein围绕嫉羡与感恩的关键概念。其中许多来自于Spillius与合作者编辑的、2011年Routledge出版的《Klein思想的新词典》一书。

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1 Innate or primary envy linked to the death instinct.

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与死本能链接的内在或原始的嫉羡

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For Klein, the tendency towards envy differs greatly between people , as does the capacity for love, and the accompanying gratitude for goodness received.

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e blX2QU7A*Tb0Whilst the environment may modify these tendencies, Klein places substantial emphasis on innate factors and links envy with the death drive.  In 1957 she wrote “ I consider envy is an oral sadistic and anal sadistic expression of destructive impulses, operative from the beginning of life, and that it has a constitutional basis”, and she goes on to write “In speaking of the innate conflict between love and hate, I am implying that the capacity both for love and for destructive impulses is, to some extent, constitutional, though varying individually in strength and interacting from the beginning with external conditions” (p.180) She quotes Chaucer, Milton, Spenser to support her thesis of the universally recognised basic destructiveness of envy and its opposition to love .  

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但是环境是可以修改这些倾向的,Klein非常强调天生的因素以及与死本能之间的链接。在1957年,她写到“我认为嫉羡是毁灭性冲动的口腔虐待和肛门虐待的表达,从生命的一开始就开始运作,并且有一个本质的基础。”,她继续写到“在谈到爱恨之间的内在冲突时,我指的是爱和毁灭冲动两者的能力。这种能力在某种程度上是本质上的,尽管会因为外在条件的不同,从一开始,不同个体的这种能力的力量和相互作用就已经很不一样。”(180页)她引用了Chaucer/Milton/Spenser等人的观点来支持自己的、已经被普遍接受的、关于嫉羡的基本毁灭性,以及嫉羡是爱的对立面的观点。

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%Z?u#EJ6uPl02. Klein distinguishes betweenenvy, jealousy and greed, which may be confused in everyday usage. Envy is rooted in a 2 person relationship, and stimulates the impulse to take away and spoil the possession of the other. As Hanna Segal writes “envy is a two-part relation in which the subject envies the object for some possession or quality: no other live object need enter into it.” (1964, p27)

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"Y'i9^3H?+Qqc0Klein区分了嫉羡、嫉妒和贪婪,这些功能在日常生活中很容易混淆。嫉羡根植于两人关系,刺激着想要夺走和破坏别人的所有物的冲动。如同Hannal Segel写的“嫉羡是两部分的关系,在这个关系里主体嫉羡客体的所有物或品质:没有其他生命体能够进入。”(1964年,27页)

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Segal writes that “jealousy is necessarily a whole object relationship, envy is essentially experienced in terms of part objects, though it persists into whole object relationships” (1964, p27)

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Segal写到“嫉妒是“完整客体”的关系中必须的,而嫉羡是涉及到部分客体时必要的体验,尽管嫉羡也会进入到完整客体关系中。”(1964年, 27页)心理学空间r6VP2?cq0Dd3I%G

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嫉妒包括三人关系:妒忌的基础是爱,它执着于对所爱的客体的占有,想要除掉竞争者。“妒忌是基础于嫉羡之上的,但是涉及知识两个人以上。主要与爱有关,是主体感觉爱是自己的权利,却被别人抢走了,或者有被竞争者从自己手上抢走的危险。”(Klein,1957,181页)心理学空间F2xw'cb'a

Wy3g5m;M4?0Greed is compared with envy.  Klein writes “ An impetuous and insatiable craving, exceeding what the subject needs and what the object is willing and able to give. At the Unconscious (Ucs ) level, greed aims primarily at completely scoping out, sucking dry and devouring the breast; that is to say its aim is destructive introjection ; whereas envy not only seeks to rob in this way but also to put badness , primarily bad excrements and bad parts of the self into the mother, and first of all into her breast ,to spoil and destroy her….One essential difference between greed and envy, although no rigid dividing line can be drawn since they are so closely associated, would accordingly be that greed is mainly bound up withintrojectionand envy withprojection” ( Klein 1957, 181)

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So , to repeat, Greed aims at the possession of all the goodness that can be extracted from the object, regardless of consequences; this may result in the destruction of the object of the spoiling of its goodness, but in this case, thedestruction is incidentalto the ruthless acquisition.

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再重复一边,贪婪是针对好的所有物的,是不顾后果地想从客体那里拿来;而这可能导致客体因为丧失了“好”而被毁灭,这种毁灭容易发生于这种残忍的获取中。心理学空间sj'L7U F keu5o;@

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Envy aims at being as good as the object, but when this is felt is impossible, it aims at spoiling the goodness of the object to remove the source of envious feelings. It is thisspoiling aspectof envy that is so destructive to development, since the very source of goodness that the infant depends on is turned bad, and good introjections therefore cannot be achieved.心理学空间 T(T6z-Jq0[EGR

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嫉羡也是针对好客体的,当感觉到不能得到,它会毁坏客体的好来避免嫉羡的(不舒服的)感觉正是嫉羡的这种破坏的方面破坏了发展,因为婴儿依赖的好的资源变成了坏的,好的内摄就不能完成。心理学空间 PQn uTo4B,A E!H

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Segal writes : Envy though arising from primitive love and admiration has a less strong libidinal component than greed and is suffused with the death instinct. As it attacks the source of life, it may be considered to be the earliest direct externalisation of the death instinct.

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Segal 写到:嫉羡从原始的爱与钦佩发生,比贪婪少一些力比多的成分,弥漫着死本能。当它攻击生命的源泉时,它可以被认为是死本能最早的直接外化。

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Envy stirs as soon as the infant becomes aware of the breast as a source of life and good experience; the real gratification which he experienced at the breast, reinforced by idealisation, so powerful in early infancy, makes him feel that the breast is the source of all comforts (physical and mental) an inexhaustible reservoir of food and warmth, love, understanding and wisdom.

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在意识到乳房是生命和好体验之源时,嫉羡就产生了;他体验到的对乳房的真正的满足,而这又被理想化所增强了。在最早期的小婴儿,这种满足是如此强烈,使婴儿觉得乳房是一切舒适的来源(身心),是永不耗竭的食物、温暖、爱、理解和智慧来源。心理学空间$`m \I#D

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能够被美好的客体满足的极快乐的满意体验,会增加他的爱与占有、持有与保护的渴望,但是同样的体验也会刺激他渴望拥有这种完美;他体验着嫉羡的痛苦的感觉,这种痛苦使他渴望破坏带给他这种痛苦感觉的客体的品质。(Segal,27-18页)

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One essential difference between greed and envy, although no rigid dividing line can be drawn since there are so closely associated, would accordingly be that greed is mainly bound up with introjection and envy with projection” ( Klein 1957, 181)

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As has been pointed out by, amongst other authors, Elizabeth Spillius, the terms envy and jealousy often overlap, vary in meaning and have a “large penumbra of associations”. The well-known quote from Shakespeare’s Othello, being a good example.心理学空间 bmf n]!j1j9^Z*`

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PbG"X"yz3E0嫉羡、妒忌和贪婪常常被发现三者之间联系紧密。举个例子,贪婪,可能是对意识到嫉羡那些拥有的人时的防御,或意识到自己渴望成为那样的人时感到嫉羡时的防御。当嫉羡强烈时,妒忌也会很强烈,更难被克服。

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3. Psychic consequences of envy.

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Here we can describe at least seven psychic consequences.

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The immediate result of an envious spoiling of the good breast is that the essential primal splitting into good and bad is interfered with. The spoiled good object cannot be introjected in a proper sustaining way. The damage caused to the breast by the envy, is also an ucs source of premature guilt, which is then felt in a paranoid way as an external and an internal threat

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对好乳房嫉羡性的破坏的即刻结果是:基本的原始分裂成好坏的分裂被干扰了。破坏了的好客体不能以一种合适的维持方式被内摄。被嫉羡导致的对乳房的损伤也是原初的内疚的潜意识来源,会以一种偏执的方式感受为外在和内在的威胁。

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3U ] OD+k0RH0nQO0Klein lays particular emphasis on the fact that envy leads to psychic attacks on the goodness of the object, which if unchecked, lead to great difficulty in taking in and learning. As envy leads to attacks on the goodness of the object, it is likely to result in confusion between the object’s goodness and badness which impairs processes of differentiation and of the development of rational thought. Mild manifestations of the confusion caused by envy may be indecision and muddled thinking. Severe state of confusion caused by envy are characteristic of psychotic states as Rosenfeld was later to show. Confusion in a different sense, between internal  and external world, and between self and other, occurs as the result of strong projective identifications in an envious individual.

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Klein 强调了那些嫉羡导致对客体“好”(好的部分)的攻击的事实,这些如果没有被检测,会导致吸收和学习的严重困难。因为嫉羡导致对客体”好”的攻击,会导致客体好与恶之间的混淆,这会损害分化的过程以及理性思考发展的过程。嫉羡导致的轻微混乱困难是优柔寡断和糊涂思维。嫉羡导致的严重混淆是Rosenfeld后面提到的精神病状态的特点。心理学空间Y1~!C;c]?7]j] Z:[

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Furthermore, the confusion between the object goodness and badness impairs processes of differentiation and introjection. Curiosity is suffused with hostility and thus felt to be dangerous. All this impairs the capacity for thinking and learning.

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进一步,客体好坏之间的混淆损伤了分化与内摄的过程。好奇心弥漫着敌意,感觉到危险。所有这些损害了思考和学习的能力。

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自体嫉羡性投射(强迫)到客体去占有和破坏的结果,有可能与报复性地进入个体去破坏的可怕幻想是等同的。

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引发的焦虑可能导致个体转向好的资源,或变得贪婪、和(或)毁灭以及恨。原始分裂和因为过渡嫉羡导致偏执上升,这两项干扰了向抑郁位相移动。于是,减少了那些能减缓嫉羡的好的、满意的体验的机会。心理学空间%I$Ej*BLq8~ @

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-H V0JqM,^*c0Excessive envy in Klein’s view, weakens the ego. This puts the individual at risk of character deterioration, rather than character strengthening in future and adversity.

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3. 7  Interference with oedipal development.

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强烈的嫉羡与异常的俄狄浦斯情节在许多方面相关。“普通的”俄狄浦斯情节的普通的妒忌弥漫着更困难的嫉羡。对母亲所有物的嫉羡,混合了父母形象,使幻想更加具有迫害性和持久性。与原初客体的不稳定的嫉羡性关系可能意味着过早地与父亲竞争,父亲被看成是一个有着极大敌意的入侵者。相反地,在恨与对母亲的失望的基础之上,力比多从母亲转向父亲,可能太早,也不稳定。回避口欲期困难(如嫉羡隐藏)而进入生殖器期,可能过早、不稳定,并且会强迫。

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Some case examples from Klein and Segal will illuminate some of these ideas as well as the technique employed in those relatively early days . First, from Klein herself. In “Envy and  gratitude” she describes a number of patients. What is interesting to me about much of this clinical material is the extent to which matters to do with bodily impulses, phantasies and feelings  i.e. oral, anal and urethral impulses, feeding, urinating defecating, are so omnipresent .心理学空间3|)O6\1Qc'}2?

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Klein 和Segal 的一些案例说明了这样的观点,也阐明了那些在相当早的岁月里使用的技术。首先,看看Klein她自己。在《嫉羡与感恩》中她描述了一些病人。在这众多的临床材料中最让我感兴趣的是那些与身体冲动有关的东西,如口腔、肛门、尿道的冲动、感觉,撒尿排便,这些都是无处不在的。心理学空间9i)g#t"Y9I&V~

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I will choose one patient from Envy and Gratitude here. This is a relatively analysable woman, p 204-206, and we can see clearly aspects of Klein’s technique-close attention to dream material, to the transference, to envy and spoiling. This seems to me to be s not excessively disturbed patient, compared with some of the others Klein describes later, but I am choosing it to illustrate some of what I have tried to describe so far.      

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我要在《嫉羡与感恩》里选有关案例,她是相当地可以被分析的妇女,在204-206页,我们可以清楚地看到Klein注意梦的材料、移情、嫉羡与破坏。相比Klein其他的案例,我认为这个个案还不是一个被过度打扰的案例,我现在她是下午阐明我想阐明的东西。

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6y*nAI _ F0Elizabeth Spillius, who we will come to later, writes about Klein’s use of language and some changes in analytic language and technique : ( Melanie Klein Today,  pages 8 to 9)

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Elizabeth Spillius,这是我们后面会谈到的一个人,她写了关于Klein使用的语言以及精神分析语言和技术的一些变化。(《今日克莱因》,8-9页)心理学空间CH8gGVm.m

(AwV|4|A,Z0“Klein developed her very concrete vivid language of part objects and bodily functions in work with small children for whom it was meaningful and appropriate. She assumed that infants feel and think in the same way, and further that this is the language of thinking and feeling in everyone’s unconscious. Work since Klein’s day has amply demonstrated that vivid bodily-based fantasies often become conscious in the analysis of adults, especially readily in the case of psychotic and borderline psychotic patients. Some of her more youthful and enthusiastic followers made interpretations in terms of verbal and behavioural content seen in a rigidly symbolic form which now seems likely to have been detrimental to the recognition of a live moment of emotional contact .… There has been a gradual shift from structure to function, that is from an idea that we relate to anatomical part objects towards an idea that we relate to psychological part objects, to the functions of the part object rather than primarily to fit its physical structure. It is the capacity for seeing, touching, tasting, hearing, smelling, remembering, feeling, judging, and thinking, active, as well as passive that are attributed to and perceived in relation to part objects.心理学空间T|Cz4E UF9Y

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“Klein在于小孩子的工作中发展了她对于部分客体和身体功能的非常具体生动的语言,恰当而意义丰富。她断言婴儿用同样的方式感受和思考,而这也是每一个人潜意识感受和思考的语言。Klien时代的工作已经充分展示了生动的以身体为基础的幻想常常在成人的分析中可以意识化,尤其是精神病人和边缘病人中。有一些她的感觉被年轻与热情的追随者以僵硬的象征化形式解释口头和行为的内涵,似乎是对生活片刻的情感接触的有害的认知。有一个从结构到功能的渐进变化,即从解剖学的部分客体的观念到心理学的部分客体的观念,到部分客体的功能,而不是原始地适应身体结构而已。这是看、触、尝、听、闻、记忆、感受、判断、思考、活动的能力,也是被动消极归属于以及察觉,与部分客体有关。

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Nowadays it isfunctions rather than anatomical part objectsthat Kleinian analysts look out for in their clinical work and interpretations are likely to be framed, at least initially, in terms of function rather than the language of anatomical structure; in keeping with Klein’s concept of projective identification. These functions are frequently understood as aspect of the self, which are projected into the part object. Melanie Klein today, volume 1, page 5 and volume 2, pages 8 to 9)心理学空间 @([9CyJ.Y

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目前,Klein后继者们在临床工作和解释中更注重功能而不是解剖学的部分客体概念,好像是有一个框架,至少是开始了,使用概念而不是解剖学结构的语言;来和Klein投射认同的概念放在一起。这些功能常常被理解成自体的方面,被投射到部分客体了。(《今日克莱因》, 卷1,第5页;卷2,8-9页)

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4. Envy and its link to gratitude.

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Klein came to see the antithesis of envy is gratitude, an expression of love and thus, by implication, the life instinct. She did not develop the concept of gratitude nearly as fully as she did the concept of envy. She explicitly pairs the two concepts in 1957, but the importance of gratitude is a concept arose earlier in her work, especially in her theory of the depressive position.

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Klein渐渐明白嫉羡的对立面是感恩,一种爱的表达,暗含生本能。她并没有像发展嫉羡这个概念一样来发展感恩的概念,在1957年她清晰地比较了这两个概念,但是感恩的重要性倒是在她的作品中出现得很早,尤其是在她关于抑郁位相的理论里。

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1937年她描述了婴儿因为对母亲的爱与照料而出现的自发的对母亲的感恩,以及母亲因为可以享受爱婴儿的、母亲的感恩。这些是爱的部分,证明“天生的保存生命的力量”,与天生的毁灭性冲动相对应。她在195年对感恩阐述得更加丰富,她把这描述成好客体的部分,认为形成了自我的核心。

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“那些拥有嫉羡的婴儿不能安全地建立一个好的内在客体,相比于这些婴儿而言,有强烈的爱和感恩能力的孩子能够与好客体有一个深入的关系。这样,就可以忍受暂时状态的嫉羡、恨、悲伤,而基本上不被伤害,因为这些嫉羡、恨、悲伤在被爱与得到护理的孩子中也会产生的。(187页)

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Gratitude is closely bound up with true generosity and gives a sense of inner wealth. Klein sees the capacity for gratitude like the tendency towards envy as partially innately determined but, once again, influenced by the environment as well.心理学空间-QM3U`h+K

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 感恩与慷慨靠得非常近,有一丝内在富足的味道。Klein把感恩的才能倾向看得坏人嫉羡一样:部分由先天决定,同时也受环境影响。心理学空间1le W*q[E X!I

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[];Z1|#U{0再一次回到Elizabeth Spillius。在   她《 嫉羡体验的多样性》一文中,她创造了一个词“接受慷慨”,我将一字不落地引用她写的内容,在她的这个陈述中,似乎她为Klein的作品增加了一个另外的维度,但是却完全没有背离Klein的基本思想。心理学空间WG%~r/u(os

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She writes “ Let us suppose that the giver takes pleasure in giving further that he is not giving in order to establish superiority over the receiver. Let us suppose too that the receiver is able to perceive this accurately and to realise that the giver knows that he, the receiver, might resent being given to. In this type of giving and this type of perception by the receiver, it is likely to be easier for the receiver to acknowledge envy and feel positive feelings as well; in particular, the receiver may feel able to give something back to the giver in the form of feeling pleasure as well as some resentment about being given to. If the giver can recognise and accept this return gift, this gratitude, a benign  circle may be set up in which both parties give something of value to each other. The receiver’s capacity to be given to his return gift of the original giver. Goodness in the other becomes bearable, even enjoyable. The receiver introjects and identifies with an object who enjoys giving and receiving, and an internal basis for admiration can develop and hence emulation of the generous giver becomes possible.心理学空间 M0@:meZ%PCtg

q6pG`$bkQ0她写到“让我们假设赠与者给得很快乐,他并不是因为要在接受者面前建立优越感而给予。让我们再假设一下:接受者能够正确地接受赠与,他意识到赠与者可能知道自己厌恶被赠与。这种情形的赠与和接受,比较容易让接受者承认自己的嫉羡、感受积极的感觉;尤其是,当接受者能够觉得自己可以把自己的感受还给赠与者时,可以是快乐的感觉,也可以是对被赠与感到愤怒。如果赠与者能够识别和接受这种返回的礼物,这种感恩,这种良性循环就可以建立起来,双方可以彼此给予有价值的东西。接受者有能力接受礼物,有能力给还赠与者礼物。他人的好变得可以忍受,甚至可以享受。接受者内摄和认同了一个能够享受给与受的客体,钦佩的内在基础可以发展了,于是乎,仿效慷慨的赠与者变成为可能。”

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Let us suppose, by contrast, that the giver takes little pleasure in giving-that he is narcissistic and uninterested in the receiver, or that he is outright actually hostile or inconsistent towards the receiver, or feels that the receiver is making unreasonable demands or draining his resources unfairly; or suppose that the giver gives his eagerly and with pleasure, but only in order to demonstrate his superiority over the receiver etc. Or further let us suppose that he gives reluctantly and unwillingly because he is trying to conceal the fact that he feels what he is giving is bad;  And still further let us suppose of the giver’s lack of genuine pleasure and generosity is accurately perceived by the receiver心理学空间7AP[,bAK

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让我们假设一下,赠与者从赠与的行为中没怎么有快感——他很自恋,对受赠者没啥兴趣,或者他对受赠者实际上有敌意,或感觉不一致,或者觉得受赠者在提不合理的要求,不公平地 耗尽他的资源;又或者假设一下赠与者热切、愉快地赠与,但只是想要证明自己比受赠者优越等。我们再进一步假设一下,他赠与得不情愿,因为他要掩藏他感觉自己的赠与是不好的;再多假设一下,赠与者缺乏真正的快乐,慷慨实际上是被受赠者觉察到的。

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In any of these examples envy is likely to be exacerbated; pleasure in receiving cannot easily develop, and the receiver will not readily feel grateful. The receiver is likely to feel resentful and to give as little as possible back to the giver. The giver deprived of gratitude gives less, or more aggressively and the deprivation-envy circle continues.
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 在这些例子中的任何一个,看上去嫉羡都恶化了;接受的愉悦不能轻易发展起来,受赠者不能真正地感觉到感恩。受赠者感觉憎恨,尽可能少地回报赠与者。赠与者被剥夺了感恩,会减少给予,或者更愤怒,继续恶性循环。心理学空间n$gH+zS+z

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于是,有些似是而非,当赠与客体被感觉到给的少或者是不好的,嫉羡最大化了。受赠者吸收和认同了赠与者的不能享受给与受,邪恶的循环就一直持续下去。真正的仿效变得非常困难,看上去还卷入了分裂、投射,取代了赠与者的权利,就像B太太认同了我的博士头衔.

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C"tO[n|0She goes on further “ I have not tried to exhaust possible variations and it is obvious that they can be very complex interactions of giving receiving further response by the original giver and yet further, but response by the receiver. One only has to think of an hour or two in the life of the mother and baby were sessional to in the course of an analysis to realise how conflicts these interactions and changes can be.”心理学空间O!R)q'i%B;G r6`

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她继续写到“我没有没玩没了地列出困难的变化,很明显在给与受之间有着非常复杂的互动,被赠与者的反应、受赠者的反应很深地影响着。一个人只要想象1~2个小时分析中的母亲与婴儿,就能意识到这种相互作用和变化是有多么冲突。心理学空间8Q w[{#k0U \N[

%RX4WjW0So who is this Mrs B in Spillius’ case example ? (Spillius in contemporary Kleinians p 158-162)

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4yU-ia|:xU8f)p d0那么在Spillius 的案例中谁是B太太呢?(Spillius, 《当代克莱因》,158-162页)

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She describes Mrs B, a woman who had a deep sense of grievance, and who’s impenitent experiencing of envy is virtually conscious. Her definition of envy is different from Spillius’-as Spillius puts it “What I regard as envy she regards as justified grievance” (156)

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A)jk/_+O0On the one hand there is what she calls “ego dystonic envy ; on the other, what she calls  ego syntonic or “impenitent “ envy .心理学空间LUCU ZS

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一个是她称为“自我矛盾的嫉羡”,另一个她称为自我谐振的或“不知悔改的”嫉羡。

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6E[rIpy6s0The ego dystonic envy tends to be unconscious, associated with painful loss and guilt over destructiveness . This is the envy described by Klein. This Envy is mainly ucs, contained, and defined by the analyst as Envy. It rarely expressed itself directly; however its Ucs operation leads to inhibition, sometimes severe of the patients creativity in work and personal relationships. Conscious envy in these patients emerges late in the analysis associated with Intense guilt. The experience of envy is ego dystonic, or perhaps more accurately consciousness dystonic.

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自我矛盾嫉羡一般是潜意识的,与痛苦的丧失和毁灭之上的内疚有关系。这是Klein描述的嫉羡。主要是潜意识的内容,被精神分析师们定义为嫉羡。鲜少直接表现,但是其潜意识运作导致压抑,有时严重干扰病人工作中的创造性和人际关系。这些病人意识里的嫉羡会与强烈的内疚一起在分析中出现。自我的体验是自我矛盾的,或者说意识矛盾更准确。心理学空间G Xr&X9y(Ow Sv#q(K

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不知悔改的嫉羡是意识层面的,或多或少正义地表达,常常以牢骚委屈的形式表现。B夫人的例子更想是后一种类型。

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在这些案例中,病人更加意识到嫉羡,就像旁观者清。这种嫉羡是没有内疚感的。Kernberg说这样的病人有自恋性人格障碍。这些病人感觉自己超级不可爱、低人一等,并把这些投射到他觉得优越的人身上。他们不知悔悟地嫉羡着,生活在英国他认为有一些不公平的、有些人高他一等、另一些有正当理由地低人一等的世界里。(154)她写到“感到不断的责备和委屈,不管多悲催,也没有哀悼自己所希望有的关系的丧失来得痛苦。”(154)Schafer评论说:很多病人在分析中呈现实际上的、不容置疑的嫉羡,充满了委屈。(142)心理学空间W2M!s l$ha:t8Lt

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在Klein的观点中,环境以复杂的方式影响着嫉羡。环境和结构之间总是有着复杂的相互作用。

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Klein sees the infant is having a fantasy of an inexhaustible breast. When the infant is deprived, the breast is hated and envy for apparently, in a mean-spirited way, keeping these riches to itself. However, the satisfying breast is also envied. Klein (1957) “the very ease with which the milk comes, although the infant feels gratified by it, also gives rise to envy because this gift seems something so unattainable” . Klein goes on to link this infantile situation with the analytical observation that patients may become destructively critical of work that is helpful:心理学空间-`!wX}8H8E2^-_1j

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“The envious patient grudges the analyst the success of his work: and if he feels that the analyst and the help he is giving have become spoiled and devalued by his envious criticism, he cannot introject him sufficiently as a good object”. I think it is fair to say that Klein did put more of an emphasis on constitutional i.e. inherited factors in the early emotional life of infants, than did many other psychoanalysts. To a certain extent, people such as Bowlby working at more or less the same time occupied a very different position, focusing on attachments, observable relationships between mothers and infants, and were much more inclined towards the role of the environment as of supreme importance.心理学空间\ J)]+uzYD&h1R*|

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嫉羡的病人对分析师成功的工作并不满意:如果他觉得分析师以及分析师所给予的帮助被自己嫉羡性的批评破坏和贬低了,他就不能很好地内摄一个好客体”。平心而论,我认为Klein比许多其他精神分析师更强调组成:如婴儿早期情感生活中的遗传因素。在某种程度上,同一时代的Bowlby是在一个完全不同的领域里工作着,聚焦依恋、观察母亲婴儿之间的关系、更倾向于环境的重要性。

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6 Envy in relation to the depressive position.

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Klein通过临床案例来展示病人是如何、什么时候开始意识到自己的嫉羡的,他可能体验到内疚,进行修复。病人的觉察能力提高,能够意识到自己对分析师好的部分的嫉羡性攻击,同时对分析师也有着正向的感觉,许多病人体验到当他们试图整合这些时感到强烈的痛苦,   Klein对此印象深刻。内疚的痛苦能轻易促进退行到偏执-分裂功能的防御,痛苦也能让嫉羡在意识上被识别。心理学空间$oQR$PI7f]

"M"| w)m]2p*Q0When paranoia is very strong, for example, in patients suffering from a psychotic illness, envy is hard to counteract in analysis. Similarly, when envy is strong, paranoia is hard to counteract. Envy will be mitigated more readily when more depressive features predominated in the personality, such patients being more able to experience gratitude and take in what people have to offer.

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当偏执非常强烈,举个例子,病人有精神病,嫉羡会很难在分析中被削弱。同样的,当嫉羡十分强烈,偏执也很难被削弱。当人格中已经存在更多的抑郁特质时,嫉羡可以减轻,这样的病人更能够体验感恩,吸收别人提供给他们的东西。

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Envious feelings are generally recognised as a painful part of the human condition, and can mobilise various defences. Defences against envy are often more problematic then envy itself. Klein herself lists what she describes as a “non-exhaustive” list of defences and others have added to it. It is sometimes difficult to distinguish between the element of envy itself and the defences against it. A list of defences includes心理学空间hT%_FNh @ f

c tsR1Bw&`f-F0 嫉羡的感觉通常被认为是人类状态的痛苦的部分,能够调动不同的防御。针对嫉羡的防御常常比嫉羡本身更有问题。Klein列出了一份“非详尽的”防御的名单,另外一些人又加了一些上去。有时候很难区分哪些是嫉羡的防御,哪些是嫉羡本身。这份名单包括:

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a)    Devaluation/denigration of the object. Spoiling, devaluation and ingratitude are involved here and in envy, and defend against experiencing it .The devalued object need no longer be envied . Klein described how for some people this can be characteristic of object relations.

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l7@~&NoK2}0对客体进行贬低、诋毁。破坏、贬低、忘恩负义,这些可以见于对嫉羡的防御,也可以见于嫉羡本身,来防御自己体验到嫉羡。被贬低的客体不再被嫉羡。Klein描述了对于一些人,这些是如何成为了客体关系的特征的。

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G1nN[ s|5n0b)    Idealisation.  If the object is sufficiently idealised, comparisons with oneself become irrelevant and the object then is omnipotently “owned” i.e. the self is aggrandised by association. Alternatively, Idealisation may take the form of denigration of the envied object and idealisation of some other object; or, some aspect of the envied object may be denigrated and others idealised. An idealised object is unstable, and prone to collapse into its opposite. Strong envy will in any case eventually threaten the ideal object too.心理学空间:h7kn9X-YKz

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理想化。如果客体被足够理想化,与自己进行比较就变得不情愿了,于是客体就可以被无所不能地“被拥有“了,例如状态被联想夸大了。要不然,理想化以诋毁被嫉羡的客体,而理想化另外一些客体的方式出现;或者,诋毁被嫉羡的客体的某些方面,另外一些方面被理想化。一个被理想化了的客体是不稳定的,易于坍塌到另一面。强烈的嫉羡在任何案例中也都会威胁到理想的客体。心理学空间 Vs'}#WF?F8}

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c)     Identification with the idealised object. Linked to the above, through projection and introjection, the individual feels that he is the possessor of the coveted attributes of the envied object.

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困惑。困惑是嫉羡的结果,好客体被攻击了,不再能够清晰地和坏客体区分开来。

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4FQ-@:Q$D c M;E0f)      飞离母亲。离开母亲飞向别人,首先从被理想化了的、回避朝向原始客体的敌意的父亲开始,来保护母亲。如果嫉羡太强烈,这个机制就会失败,最终也会浸染到新关系中去。

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&dp4F4l'ieiB"t*A0g)     Devaluation or inhibition of the self. By devaluing his own gifts, the person simultaneously denies envy and punishes himself for it. Avoidance of competition and success is also an attempt to protect a precariously establish good object, lest it be spoiled by situations liable to cause competitive and envious feelings in the self.

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h)    Greedy internalisation of the breast. By this mechanism the breast becomes possessed and controlled in fantasy by the infant, who thus avoids feeling separate and envious. All good attributed to the breast, can now be owned for the self. However, as Klein puts it “it is the very greed with which this internalisation is carried out, that contains the general failure… A good object, which is well established not only loves the subject, but is loved by it .This does not apply to an idealised one. By powerful and violent possessiveness, the good object is felt to turn into a destroyed persecutor”

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贪婪地内化乳房。通过这个防御机制,婴儿可以幻想占有和控制乳房,这样可以避免分离和嫉羡的感觉。所有的好都归功于乳房,而这个乳房现在又可以被自体所拥有。无论如何,就像Klein说的“正是非常贪婪,这种内化才被执行,包含了普通的失败……一个建立得很好的好的客体,不仅可以爱主体,也可以被主体爱。这不仅仅应用于理想化了的客体。通过强有力和野蛮的占有,好的客体被感觉变成了一个被摧毁了的迫害者。”心理学空间*c{7t @|G|-d[

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i)       Projection of envy. One’s own envy may be attributed to others by projection. The individual then sees himself as non-envious, but surrounded by envious others .This contributes to a paranoid sense of the world.

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?)ST$Z#S1`0j)       Stirring up the envy in others. There may be a further step in the projection of envy, in that the projection may be actualised. Stirring up envy in others by one’s own success and possessions by projection, is a frequent method of defence in envy. The ultimate ineffectiveness of this method, derives from the persecutory and depressive anxieties to which gives rise.心理学空间4N"W.cC_%_"ii

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激起别人的嫉羡。有一种更深的嫉羡,投射可以被实现。通过自己的成功激起别人的嫉羡、通过投射而占有,常常是嫉羡的一种防御。因为由此产生的迫害性和抑郁性焦虑,这种方法的最终失效。

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k)     Stifling of love and intensification of hate. Klein thought that this was less painful to bear than the guilt arising from the combination of love, hate and envy ; it may not express itself in hate, but takes the form  of indifference. The individual tends to withdraw from people, but this apparent independence is illusory.心理学空间q6uB$q"D,C"? dA

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令人窒息的爱和激烈的恨。Klein 认为相比于从爱、恨、嫉羡的混合产生的痛苦而言,这的痛苦要少一些;可能不能用恨来表达自己,而是采用漠不关心的方式。个体倾向于从人群中退缩,但是这种明显的独立是虚无缥缈的。

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见诸行动。Rosenfeld以及描述了各种各样的见诸行动是怎么使用的。整合时,人格中的嫉羡性、摧毁部分威胁要被理解,为了保持人格中的这种分裂,见诸行动就会出现。心理学空间(mJ(|8dv+s

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vS.wq:h%p(P0在Bion的《论自负》这篇文章里,他描述了精神分析师包容病人投射的能力使嫉羡的重要来源,尤其是精神病人和边缘的病人。Bion认为相当于感恩而言,嫉羡是与创造力基本相反的。他的观点是:嫉羡攻击链接于大脑的任何创造。任何可觉察的父母间的链接必须被擦掉,对此的象征化什么的也一样。最终,尤其是分裂性人格,观念间的联系和思考的过程本身被攻击了,并且碎片化了。心理学空间u_8q,HqW

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The negative therapeutic reaction isa term coined by Freud in 1923, to donate the paradoxical worsening of some patients after a successful piece of therapeutic work has been accomplished. Referring to such patients, Freud wrote that “every partial solution that ought to result, and in other people does result, in an improvement or a temporary suspension of symptoms, produces in them for the time being and exacerbation of their illness.” It should be clear from much of what I’ve said above, that envy will play a significant role in such a negative therapeutic reaction. Klein herself described how a negative therapeutic reaction may set in secondarily, retrospectively attacking a piece of analytic work that has initially clearly been helpful .As Segal wrote about her patient (page 29) : “Powerful unconscious envy often lies at the root of negative therapeutic reaction is and interminable treatments. One can observe this in patients who have a long history of failed previous treatments. It appeared clearly in a patient who came to analysis of the many years of varied psychiatric and psychotherapeutic treatments. Each course of treatment would bring about an improvement, but deterioration would set in after a termination. When he began his analysis, it soon appear that the main problem was the strength of his negative therapeutic reaction. I represented mainly a successful and potent father, and his hatred of and rivalry with this figure was so intense that the analysis, representing my potency as an analyst, was unconsciously attacked and destroyed over and over again.” (p.29)心理学空间7t:n'K U E-{P-F

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Her book on envy provoked a storm of disagreement in the BPAS. It was seen as preposterous that such pernicious attacks on goodness were inherent to human nature; that the death instinct of which envy was one expression , was not a viable proposition; that envy is a complex feeling, not immediately  derived from instinct; that Klein ignored the environment; that what she described as envy in infants could rather be called “eagerness”; that she was attributing to infants thoughts of which she was not capable; that her theory of envy was a theory of despair, scientifically unproved; and that Kleinian’s preconceived expectations of envy were leading them to find evidence of intractable vicious destructive envy everywhere in their clinical material ! (Spillius 147)

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"u,R&Ndvw_0在BPAS, 她的书挑起了争论的风暴。这种对好的致命的攻击是遗传于人类天性;嫉羡是死本能的一种表达,并不是可望实现的命题;嫉羡是复杂的感觉,并不是直接从本能产生;Klein忽略环境;她称为婴儿的嫉羡的东西还不如称为“渴望”;她没办法的就归为婴儿的想法;她的嫉羡理论是绝望的、未被科学证明的理论;克莱因的后继者们对嫉羡研究的期待引领着他们在临床材料中到处发现难以对付的、邪恶的毁灭性的嫉羡的证据;这些看上去太荒谬了。(Spillius,147页)

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我并认为要用悲观的眼光来看世界,我也不认为当代的可以后继者们有必要到处看见嫉羡或者不管环境的重要性。当代的可以后继者们已经在Klein所描述的技术上进行前进,保留了许多她的贡献、发现和写过的东西。我希望我的演讲为你们带来一丝Klein及其后继者们气味,能鼓励你们阅读Klein的原著,以及后续者的作品,尤其是Segal , Spillius,和一些更近期的作家如Betty  Joseph, John Steiner 和Michael Feldman的作品。

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