DISARMING THE NARCISSIST: SURVIVING AND THRIVING WITH THE SELF-ABSORBED
作者: Wendy Behary / 12775次阅读 时间: 2010年11月20日
来源: New Harbinger Publications 标签: NARCISSIST 图式治疗 自恋
DISARMING THE NARCISSIST: SURVIVING AND THRIVING WITH THE SELF-ABSORBED 作 者:Wendy Behary
出 版:New Harbinger Publications
书 号:1608827607
原 价:¥116.60元
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Book ID/图书代码:09700007B17539
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页数: 156
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u2ayp(_%w0What can you do with the narcissistic people in your life? They’re frustrating (and maybe even intimidating) to deal with. But sometimes you genuinely care for one of them. And you might need to interact with others in social or professional settings. Sometimes it doesn’t won’t work to simply ignore them. You need to find a way of communicating effectively with narcissists, getting your point across and meeting your needs while sidestepping unproductive power struggles and senseless arguments.This book offers several strategies for dealing effectively with someone who is at the centre of his or her own universe. Readers will learn how to move past the narcissist’s defences with compassionate, empathetic communication. They’ll learn to understand the worldview and coping styles of narcissists and why it’s often sad and lonely to be a narcissist. By anticipating and avoiding certain hot-button issues, readers will discover ways to relate to narcissists without triggering aggression. By validating some common narcissistic concerns, readers will find out how to be heard in conversation with a narcissist.心理学空间bh2D8i3dF-N

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:n |BIL6yn0Wendy Behary, LCSW, is founder and clinical director of the Cognitive Therapy Center of New Jersey and a faculty member at the Cognitive Therapy Center and Schema Therapy Institute of New York. She is also a founding fellow of the Academy of Cognitive Therapy. She maintains a private practice, specializing in narcissism and couples therapy.心理学空间 N&e'ZZU6c3V

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Praise for the first edition  对初版的赞美

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Contents  内容心理学空间 X0_U n"k FH

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Foreword  序言心理学空间2Y |J(o7^ i\3T-r0x\)c

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Acknowledgments  致谢心理学空间qrGk2G*q kV-o

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Introduction  引言

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  An Era of Narcissism   自恋的时代

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  The Wisdom of Empathy   共情的智慧心理学空间)V B S/q3aN T6~

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1 Framing the Situation: Toward an Understanding of Narcissism 建构情境:对自恋的理解心理学空间,n)W2{;~.Xw*mD

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  What Is a Narcissist? 什么是自恋?

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  Origins of Narcissism 自恋的起源

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  Hiding Behind the Armor of Coping Modes躲在应对方式的盔甲后面

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2 Understanding the Anatomy of Personality: Schemas and the Brain理解人格的剖析:图式和大脑心理学空间g,Tih`@&mS

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  Connecting the Dots连接点

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3 Getting Captured: Identifying Your Personal Traps被捕获:识别你的个人陷阱

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ER-h trUx2}T0  Comfort Zones: The Challenges of Living with and Changing Your Habits舒适区:生活与改变习惯的挑战

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  Developing an Authentic Voice发展真实的声音

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  Hope Springs Eternal: The Capacity to Learn and Change希望永恒:学习和改变的能力

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4 Overcoming the Obstacles: Communication Pitfalls, Snags, and Glitches克服障碍:沟通的陷阱,障碍,和故障心理学空间1{Y[.Z9G4f

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  Cues and Clues: Knowing Why You Get Triggered提示与线索:知道你为什么被触发心理学空间+{7M}B7k G0C$ss

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5 Paying Attention: Facing Difficult Encounters with a Narcissist注意:面对与自恋狂的不同遭遇心理学空间KXY qLEyR

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  Breaking Free from Your Mechanical Habits摆脱你的机械习惯

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  The Importance of Practice实践的重要性

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6 Making an Exit: Escaping Perilous Narcissism走出困境:逃离危险的自恋心理学空间L$p!z a)E o/}D

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  Identifying Perilous Narcissism识别危险的自恋

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^i7i|A2ZE07 Using Empathic Confrontation: A Winning Strategy for Interpersonal Effectiveness使用共情对峙:人际效能的制胜策略

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  A Brief Look at the Science of Empathy科学共情简论

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